Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
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Oscar Wilde was an Irish playwright, novelist, and poet who is known for his wit, flamboyant style, and contribution to literature during the late 19th century. His notable works include "The Picture of Dorian Gray" and the comedic play "The Importance of Being Earnest." Wilde is often remembered for his sharp humor, extravagant lifestyle, and eventual downfall due to a public scandal and imprisonment for his homosexuality.
1854–1900·lived 46 years
Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.
A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.
Some things are more precious because they don’t last long.
The best way to appreciate your job is to imagine yourself without one.
Who, being loved, is poor?
We call ours a utilitarian age, and we do not know the uses of any single thing. We have forgotten that water can cleanse, that fire can purify, and that the Earth is mother to us all.The Soul of Man Under Socialism, 1891
Ordinary riches can be stolen; real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.The Soul of Man Under Socialism, 1891
It is only an auctioneer who can equally and impartially admire all schools of art.The Critic as Artist, 1891
I am not young enough to know everything.
It is better to have a permanent income than to be fascinating.
A man can't be too careful in the choice of his enemies.
I have nothing to declare except my genius.
Celibacy is the most unusual of all the perversions.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Life is too important to be taken seriously.The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895
The aim of life is self-development. To realize one’s nature perfectly — that is what each of us is here for.The Complete Works of Oscar Wilde, 2000
Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation.The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895
Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.The Critic as Artist, 1891
No woman should ever be quite accurate about her age. It looks so calculating.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act I, 1895
There is only one class in the community that thinks more about money than the rich, and that is the poor. The poor can think of nothing else.The Soul of Man Under Socialism, 1891
Everybody who is incapable of learning has taken to teaching.The Critic as Artist, 1891
Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Work is the curse of the drinking classes.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
To expect the unexpected shows a thoroughly modern intellect.An Ideal Husband, 1895
The only thing to do with good advice is to pass it on. It is never of any use to oneself.An Ideal Husband, Act I, Methuen & Co., 1912
Moderation is a fatal thing. Nothing succeeds like excess.A Woman of No Importance, Act III, 1893
I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act II, 1895
Women are made to be loved, not understood.The Sphinx Without a Secret, 1887
There is no sin except stupidity.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.The Soul of Man Under Socialism, 1891
I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and my enemies for their intellects. A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies.The Picture of Dorian Gray, p. 75, 1890
Life imitates art far more than art imitates Life.The Decay of Lying, 1891
The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible.The Picture of Dorian Gray, p. 23, 1890
Beauty is the only thing that time cannot harm. Philosophies fall away like sand, creeds follow one another, but what is beautiful is a joy for all seasons, a possession for all eternity.Miscellaneous Aphorisms; The Soul of Man
Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same.
The truth is rarely pure and never simple.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act I, 1895
Memory... is the diary that we all carry about with us.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act II, 1895
The world is a stage, but the play is badly cast.Lord Arthur Savile's Crime and Other Stories
Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike.An Ideal Husband, 1895
What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.Lady Windermere's Fan, Act III
A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.The Critic as Artist, 1891
To lose one parent may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act 1, 1895
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it... I can resist everything but temptation.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.An Ideal Husband, Act III, 1895
Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative.The Critic as Artist, 1891
Children begin by loving their parents; after a time they judge them; rarely, if ever, do they forgive them.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Patriotism is the virtue of the vicious.Conversations with Oscar Wilde, A. H. Cooper-Prichard, 1931
Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892
When the gods wish to punish us they answer our prayers.An Ideal Husband, 1895
A man's face is his autobiography. A woman's face is her work of fiction.The Wit and Wisdom of Oscar Wilde
A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone's feelings unintentionally.
Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.De Profundis, 1897
Life is far too important a thing ever to talk seriously about.Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892
Conversation about the weather is the last refuge of the unimaginative.The Weather Is Perfectly Interesting, Actually, Skeptic Society Magazine, 2024
True friends stab you in the front.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act III, 1895
He has no enemies, but is intensely disliked by his friends.Notes and Queries, Vol. 41, Issue 3, Oxford University Press, Sept, 1994
Society exists only as a mental concept; in the real world there are only individuals.
It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.Lady Windermere's Fan, Act I, 1892
There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.A Woman of No Importance, Act III, 1893
Ambition is the last refuge of the failure.Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young, 1894
One should always be in love. That is the reason one should never marry.A Woman of No Importance
I have the simplest tastes. I am always satisfied with the best.An Idler's Impression, Edgar Saltus, 1917
No man is rich enough to buy back his past.An Ideal Husband, Act One, 1893
America is the only country that went from barbarism to decadence without civilization in between.Impressions of America, 1906
The only difference between the saint and the sinner is that every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.A Woman of No Importance, 1893
I can resist everything except temptation.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.Lady Windermere's Fan, Act III, 1893
This suspense is terrible. I hope it will last.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act II, 1895
There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
I sometimes think that God in creating man somewhat overestimated his ability.Oscar Wilde And The Black Douglas, p. 20, 1949
When I was young I thought that money was the most important thing in life; now that I am old I know that it is.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
All bad poetry springs from genuine feeling.The Critic as Artist, 1891
It is through art, and through art only, that we can realise our perfection.The Critic as Artist, 1891
Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught.The Critic as Artist, 1891
Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go.Success Magazine, May 1908
Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.'Keep Love in Your Heart', Big Think, 2015
The old believe everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, the young know everything.Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young, 1894
I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying.The Happy Prince and Other Tales, 1888
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act II, 1895
The books that the world calls immoral are books that show the world its own shame.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
You can never be overdressed or overeducated.The Importance of Being Earnest, Act I, 1895
Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not.An Ideal Husband, 1895
To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.The Soul of Man Under Socialism, 1891
You will always be fond of me. I represent to you all the sins you never had the courage to commit.The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890
In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892
Indeed I have always been of the opinion that hard work is simply the refuge of people who have nothing to do.The Remarkable Rocket, 1888
Success is a science; if you have the conditions, you get the results.
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.The Critic as Artist, 1891
It's tragic how few people ever possess their souls before they die. Nothing is more rare in any man, than an act of his own. It is quite true. Most people are other people.De Profundis
Experience is the name so many people give to their mistakes.Lady Windermere's Fan, Act III, 1893
No great artist ever sees things as they really are. If he did, he would cease to be an artist.The Picture of Dorian Gray, Chapter 2, 1890
We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.Lady Windermere's Fan, 1892
That’s all 97 quotes by Oscar Wilde.