America has been the country of my fond election from the age of thirteen, when I first saw it. I had the honour to hoist with my own hands the flag of freedom, the first time it was displayed, on the Delaware; and I have attended it with veneration ever since on the ocean.

Choosing matters more than inheriting

There's something worth noticing in how Jones describes his relationship to a country—not as someone born into it, but as someone who actively chose it. He didn't inherit America; he elected it. That distinction matters because it suggests a kind of deliberate commitment that's different from the passive loyalty you're supposed to feel just by existing somewhere.

Most of us take our countries, families, and communities as givens. We're born here, so we belong here, end of story. But Jones is pointing to something else: the power of consciously deciding what you're devoted to. He didn't just fight for abstract ideals; he stood on a ship and physically raised a flag with his own hands. The ritual mattered. The deliberate action mattered. It's easy to dismiss that as historical romanticism, but consider how differently you might treat something you've actively chosen versus something that's just yours by default. When you decide something matters to you—really decide it, not just inherit the decision—you tend to protect it differently.

That's not just about countries. It applies to relationships, careers, communities, even values. The things we choose with open eyes, the ones we keep choosing even when it gets hard, tend to stick with us in ways that inherited ones sometimes don't.