I'm always surrounded by crazy people, but when I come back to the country I'm into my plants, I love gardenin... — Gemma Collins

I'm always surrounded by crazy people, but when I come back to the country I'm into my plants, I love gardening, I love bird watching and I absolutely love nature.

Author: Gemma Collins

Insight: There's something quietly radical about needing a total reset from your own life. Most of us think we should be able to handle our chaos—the demanding people, the constant noise, the performances we're all running. But Gemma Collins is naming something real: sometimes the people and energy around you become so much that you need to step completely outside of it, not just for a vacation, but for something that asks nothing of you. Plants and birds don't need your attention in the way people do. They don't care about your status, your mood swings, or whether you're performing well. Gardening especially is honest work—things grow or they don't, based on real conditions, not on how charming you are that day. It's why so many people suddenly become obsessed with their gardens during stressful periods. There's almost a permission structure in nature: you can just exist there without being "on." The overlooked part is that this isn't weakness or escape—it's self-preservation. Coming back to plants and birds and soil is how she comes back to herself. It's a reminder that the crazy-making stuff isn't actually who you are, it's just what you're navigating. When you understand that, the daily chaos becomes a little less consuming.

The reset nature demands nothing

I'm always surrounded by crazy people, but when I come back to the country I'm into my plants, I love gardening, I love bird watching and I absolutely love nature.

There's something quietly radical about needing a total reset from your own life. Most of us think we should be able to handle our chaos—the demanding people, the constant noise, the performances we're all running. But Gemma Collins is naming something real: sometimes the people and energy around you become so much that you need to step completely outside of it, not just for a vacation, but for something that asks nothing of you.

Plants and birds don't need your attention in the way people do. They don't care about your status, your mood swings, or whether you're performing well. Gardening especially is honest work—things grow or they don't, based on real conditions, not on how charming you are that day. It's why so many people suddenly become obsessed with their gardens during stressful periods. There's almost a permission structure in nature: you can just exist there without being "on."

The overlooked part is that this isn't weakness or escape—it's self-preservation. Coming back to plants and birds and soil is how she comes back to herself. It's a reminder that the crazy-making stuff isn't actually who you are, it's just what you're navigating. When you understand that, the daily chaos becomes a little less consuming.

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Gemma Collins

Gemma Collins is an English television personality, radio host, and businesswoman, best known for her role on the reality TV show "The Only Way Is Essex." Rising to fame in the early 2010s, she has since become a prominent figure in British pop culture, recognized for her outspoken personality and various media appearances, including "Celebrity Big Brother." Collins has also launched her own fashion line and actively engages with her fans through social media.

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