A pun is the lowest form of humor, unless you thought of it yourself.

We're harsher on their jokes than ours

We've all been there—groaning at someone's terrible wordplay, only to catch ourselves laughing when we land a good one minutes later. This quote captures something real about how our brains work: we're inherently biased toward our own creations. A pun that makes us wince when someone else delivers it feels genuinely clever when it comes from our own mouth, even if it's equally bad.

But there's something deeper here about creativity and effort. When you struggle to twist words together in a funny way, your brain has invested energy in the work. That effort creates a small attachment to the result, which feels like genuine humor to you. It's the same reason we overestimate how funny our own jokes are at parties—we've lived through the whole creative process, while everyone else just sees the punchline land.

The real insight isn't that puns are secretly brilliant. It's that we give ourselves permission to enjoy our own efforts in ways we deny others. We're all a little more forgiving with ourselves, and maybe that's not entirely a bad thing. The puns we make ourselves might be terrible, but at least we tried to be funny—and that counts for something.