A person who chases two rabbits catches neither.

The cost of doing everything

We live in an age of infinite options, yet somehow we're more scattered than ever. That old saying about chasing two rabbits captures something we feel acutely now—not just at work, where we juggle projects while checking email, but in how we approach life itself. We want to be fit and also sleep until noon. We want a thriving career and endless free time. We want to master the guitar and learn coding and finally read all those books. And in trying to do everything, we often end up fully committed to nothing.

The trick is that this isn't really about being lazy or unfocused—it's about how our brains actually work. Attention is a finite resource, not an infinite well. When you're genuinely pursuing one difficult thing, you develop momentum, expertise, and the small wins that keep you motivated. Split yourself between two genuine pursuits and you're constantly starting over, constantly at beginner's level, constantly fighting the friction of switching gears.

This doesn't mean never trying anything new. It means being honest about what you're actually willing to invest in right now. The person who picks one rabbit and catches it learns something valuable: what real commitment feels like. That's worth more than a year of half-hearted attempts at everything.