I look for what needs to be done. After all, that's how the universe designs itself.

Align yourself with what actually works

There's something almost radical about looking at what needs to be done instead of what you want to do. It sounds limiting at first—like you're erasing your preferences—but Fuller's point cuts deeper. He's saying the universe has a kind of logic to it, a pattern of what actually works. When you pay attention to what genuinely needs doing, you're not compromising; you're aligning yourself with something real.

Think about the moments when you've felt most useful or alive. Usually it's not when you were chasing some abstract dream, but when you spotted a real problem and fixed it. A friend struggling with something you could help with. A gap in a project nobody else noticed. A skill you have that a situation actually requires. That alignment feels different because it is different—you're not pushing against reality; you're flowing with it.

The tricky part is that we're trained to pick first and rationalize later. Want the promotion, get the credentials. Want the relationship, make the gestures. But Fuller suggests reversing it: observe what the situation is genuinely asking for, and you might find you're already holding what's needed. It's less about ego and more about paying attention—which, it turns out, is a form of wisdom we could use more of.