Gardening is how I relax. It's another form of creating and playing with colors.

Creating without the pressure

There's something quietly radical about a world-famous designer finding his peace in dirt and plants rather than in his own creations. Oscar de la Renta could have relaxed anywhere—spas, galleries, exclusive retreats—but he chose a garden. What this tells us is that sometimes the antidote to making beautiful things professionally is the chance to make beautiful things with zero stakes. A flower doesn't need to be perfect for a collection. It just needs to exist.

The real insight is that gardening works as relaxation precisely because it shares the same language as design—color, form, composition—but removes the pressure. When you're arranging a garden, you're playing with the same creative muscles you use everywhere else, except the mistakes don't matter. A dahlia that grows an awkward shade? It's still there tomorrow. You can change your mind, move things around, experiment without consequences. That freedom is what makes it restorative.

For anyone who works in any creative field—or honestly, anyone who thinks too much—this is worth considering. Sometimes we don't need a completely different activity to rest; we need to return to what we love doing, but with the performance removed. The play without the pressure.