Success on any major scale requires you to accept responsibility... in the final analysis, the one quality that all successful people have... is the ability to take on responsibility.

Own Your Wins and Losses

Most of us love talking about our wins but stay oddly quiet about our failures. We'll happily claim credit for a project that went well, but the moment something falls apart, we're suddenly full of explanations about why it wasn't really our fault. The truth Korda is pointing at here is that successful people do something different: they own both sides equally.

The counterintuitive part is that taking responsibility actually makes you freer, not more burdened. When you stop blaming circumstances or other people, you suddenly have real power. You're no longer waiting for permission or for things to change. You can actually do something about it. That shift from "this happened to me" to "this is mine to handle" is what separates people who move forward from people who stay stuck.

The catch is that this doesn't mean being a martyr or taking blame for things genuinely outside your control. It means drawing a clear circle around what you can influence and owning every inch of it. A parent dealing with a struggling kid, an employee on a difficult team, someone trying to build something from nothing—the ones who make real progress aren't the ones making the best excuses. They're the ones asking what they can actually do about it.