Don't fight the problem, decide it. — George C. Marshall
Don't fight the problem, decide it.
Author: George C. Marshall
Insight: There's a real difference between wrestling with something and actually choosing what to do about it. Fighting a problem keeps you locked in place, rehashing the same worries and "what-ifs" over and over. Deciding it means you accept that you have to move, even if you don't have perfect information. Most of us spend far too long in the fighting phase. We debate with ourselves, weigh options endlessly, imagine worst-case scenarios. Meanwhile, the problem sits there unchanged. What Marshall understood is that decisions, even imperfect ones, create momentum. Once you've decided, you can course-correct. You can learn from the actual results instead of imaginary ones. The friction you felt while fighting dissolves into action. This matters especially in moments where there's no objectively "right" answer. Career moves, relationship conflicts, where to live, whether to change something about your life. The endless weighing of pros and cons isn't helping you think more clearly—it's just delaying the point where you become someone who acts instead of someone who worries. Sometimes the bravest thing isn't having the perfect plan. It's deciding and finding out what comes next.