Who ever is out of patience is out of possession of their soul.

Impatience is handing over control

Patience isn't really about waiting—it's about maintaining control over yourself when the world tries to pull you in different directions. When we lose patience, we're not just getting frustrated. We're actually handing over the steering wheel to whatever's annoying us. That frustrating person, the slow internet, the delayed email—they get to decide how we think and act. The moment you snap, you're no longer the author of your own responses.

This matters more now than ever, because impatience has become almost a reflex. We expect instant answers, immediate results, quick fixes. When things don't deliver, we feel a real loss of control—and we express it through angry texts, road rage, or just internal seething. But Bacon's point cuts deeper: every time you surrender to impatience, you're giving away something more valuable than time itself. You're surrendering the quiet authority you have over your own mind and reactions.

The counterintuitive part? The people who seem most "in possession" of themselves aren't necessarily calm by nature. They've just decided that their peace of mind is worth more than being right immediately. Patience is the luxury of keeping yourself.