We rarely think people have good sense unless they agree with us. — Francis Bacon

We rarely think people have good sense unless they agree with us.

Author: Francis Bacon

Insight: It's startling how quickly we flip the switch from "this person is thoughtful" to "this person is clearly not thinking straight" the moment they disagree with us. We do it constantly—in political arguments, parenting disagreements, even coffee shop debates about the best way to make pasta. The person who had good judgment five minutes ago suddenly seems naive or stubborn the second their conclusion diverges from ours. The sneaky part is that we're usually not aware we're doing it. We genuinely feel like we're being objective, that the other person is simply missing obvious facts. But Bacon's point cuts deeper: we've made agreement the actual test of intelligence, not reasoning itself. Someone could be following solid logic, weighing evidence carefully, and thinking in good faith—and we'll still dismiss them if they land somewhere different. This matters because it keeps us locked in. If we only respect the judgment of people who already think like us, we never actually stress-test our own beliefs. We never learn from sharp people who see things differently. The real sign of good sense might not be getting the right answer, but being willing to seriously reckon with why someone intelligent arrived at a different one.