One who is kind is sympathetic and gentle with others. He is considerate of others' feelings and courteous in... — Ezra Taft Benson

One who is kind is sympathetic and gentle with others. He is considerate of others' feelings and courteous in his behavior. He has a helpful nature. Kindness pardons others' weaknesses and faults. Kindness is extended to all - to the aged and the young, to animals, to those low of station as well as the high.

Author: Ezra Taft Benson

Insight: Kindness sounds simple until you actually try to live it consistently. The tricky part isn't being nice to people you like or people who can do something for you—it's extending that same gentleness to the stranger at the checkout counter, the coworker who annoys you, or the person who's already frustrated you twice this week. Real kindness, as this quote suggests, isn't situational. It's a baseline way of moving through the world. What often gets overlooked is that kindness includes a kind of forgiveness built right into it. When you're truly kind, you're not keeping score of other people's mistakes or holding grudges about their shortcomings. You're acknowledging that everyone has rough days, bad habits, and things they're struggling with that you can't see. This isn't about being a doormat—it's about recognizing that harshness rarely makes anything better, while patience and gentle understanding often do. The part about extending kindness "to all" matters more now than ever, actually. In a world where it's easy to only be considerate toward people in your immediate circle, the radical act is treating the security guard, the elderly neighbor, the person with different beliefs with the same basic respect and care. Kindness becomes not just a personality trait but a conscious practice that pushes against our natural instinct to sort people into categories of who deserves our effort.

Kindness Without Scorekeeping

One who is kind is sympathetic and gentle with others. He is considerate of others' feelings and courteous in his behavior. He has a helpful nature. Kindness pardons others' weaknesses and faults. Kindness is extended to all - to the aged and the young, to animals, to those low of station as well as the high.

Kindness sounds simple until you actually try to live it consistently. The tricky part isn't being nice to people you like or people who can do something for you—it's extending that same gentleness to the stranger at the checkout counter, the coworker who annoys you, or the person who's already frustrated you twice this week. Real kindness, as this quote suggests, isn't situational. It's a baseline way of moving through the world.

What often gets overlooked is that kindness includes a kind of forgiveness built right into it. When you're truly kind, you're not keeping score of other people's mistakes or holding grudges about their shortcomings. You're acknowledging that everyone has rough days, bad habits, and things they're struggling with that you can't see. This isn't about being a doormat—it's about recognizing that harshness rarely makes anything better, while patience and gentle understanding often do.

The part about extending kindness "to all" matters more now than ever, actually. In a world where it's easy to only be considerate toward people in your immediate circle, the radical act is treating the security guard, the elderly neighbor, the person with different beliefs with the same basic respect and care. Kindness becomes not just a personality trait but a conscious practice that pushes against our natural instinct to sort people into categories of who deserves our effort.

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Ezra Taft Benson

Ezra Taft Benson was an American religious leader and politician, best known as a prominent member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS Church) and the U.S. Secretary of Agriculture under President Dwight D. Eisenhower from 1953 to 1961. He served as the thirteenth president of the LDS Church from 1985 until his death in 1994 and was influential in promoting the church's teachings on self-reliance, stewardship, and the importance of family values. Benson is also recognized for his extensive writings and speeches on faith and politics.

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