Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge. — Carl Jung

Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge.

Author: Carl Jung

Insight: We feel the pull every day: someone does something we don't understand, and it's so much easier to decide they're lazy, selfish, or just plain wrong than to sit with the discomfort of not knowing. Judging requires almost no effort—it's instant, it feels decisive, and it lets us move on. Actual thinking? That's exhausting. It means holding multiple explanations at once, considering what we don't know, admitting complexity. This matters now more than ever because we're constantly encountering situations designed to provoke quick judgment. Social media rewards the snappy take over the nuanced one. Political opponents become cartoons instead of people with different priorities. Even in our relationships, it's tempting to write someone off rather than wonder what's really driving their behavior. The non-obvious part is that judging doesn't actually feel like laziness—it feels like clarity. It feels like you've figured something out. That's what makes the habit so sticky. The real work is noticing that moment when you're about to judge, and instead asking yourself: what don't I know here? What would it take to understand this differently? That pause, that genuine curiosity, is thinking. And yes, it's much harder.

Source: Flying Saucers: A Modern Myth of Things Seen in the Skies, p. 46, 1959