You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in t... — Brian Tracy

You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

Author: Brian Tracy

Insight: Life hands us plenty we didn't ask for—a sudden layoff, a relationship ending, health problems, a plan falling apart. The gut reaction is usually frustration at the thing itself, as if we could somehow argue our way back to yesterday. But here's what actually changes the game: your stance toward it matters more than the event. This isn't the toxic positivity version where you're supposed to smile through everything. It's simpler and harder. When you lose a job, you can't undo that. But you can decide whether this is a catastrophe or a pivot point, whether you become bitter or curious about what comes next. That choice doesn't erase the difficulty, but it completely reshapes what you do with it. Someone who sees setbacks as information learns faster than someone who sees them as proof of failure. The real power is in noticing when you're giving your circumstances power over your mood, your decisions, your sense of yourself. Once you notice it, you have an actual choice. That's the difference between being swept along by life and being the kind of person who responds to it.

Source: The Psychology of Achievement, p. 77, 2004