Struggle is the meaning of life; defeat or victory is in the hands of God. But struggle itself is man’s duty and should be his joy.

Find joy in the doing

There's something almost rebellious about finding joy in struggle itself, especially when we're trained to believe happiness means finally reaching the finish line. We're told to endure the hard parts so we can get to the good parts—but this idea flips that completely. The point isn't to white-knuckle through difficulty hoping it ends. The point is to actually find something worthwhile in the doing.

Think about why people stay in hobbies or relationships or work projects that constantly challenge them. A musician doesn't practice scales because she's convinced that someday she'll be "done" practicing. A parent doesn't raise children because they're waiting for it to become effortless. They do these things because there's something real and alive in the effort itself. When you stop treating struggle as punishment you're enduring on the way to real life, and start seeing it as where real life actually happens, everything shifts.

The second part—that outcomes are beyond our control—actually makes this more freeing, not less. You can't always win. Things fall apart despite your best efforts. But what you can control is whether you show up and genuinely engage. That's not grim resignation. That's where your actual power lives, and where meaning gets built.