Our happiest moments as tourists always seem to come when we stumble upon one thing while in pursuit of someth... — Lawrence Block

Our happiest moments as tourists always seem to come when we stumble upon one thing while in pursuit of something else.

Author: Lawrence Block

Insight: There's something almost magical about discovering a hidden café while you're lost looking for a museum, or finding the best conversation of your trip with a stranger you met by accident. These unplanned moments stick with us in ways the things we carefully scheduled often don't. We can check off the major attractions and feel fine, but we remember the unexpected. This reveals something worth noticing about how we actually experience joy. We spend so much time planning the perfect outcome—the right restaurant, the perfect photo spot, the must-see landmark—that we're often too focused to notice what's actually happening around us. The stumble, the detour, the "wrong turn" that leads somewhere interesting: these work because we're not braced for them, not measuring them against expectations, just experiencing them as they unfold. The real insight might be that this applies far beyond travel. Your best workdays probably aren't the ones where everything went according to plan. Your closest friendships likely deepened through unscheduled conversations, not the carefully arranged dates. Maybe the lesson isn't to stop planning altogether, but to leave some space for wandering—to stay loose enough that when something unexpected appears, we're actually present for it instead of checking it off a list.