I've had a tough time learning how to act like a congressman. Today I accidentally spent some of my own money.

When Money Stops Feeling Real

There's something both funny and pointed in this observation about the gap between public servants and actual responsibility. Kennedy's joke works because we recognize the pattern: once someone enters an institution with enough perks and cushioning, their relationship to consequences changes. Money stops feeling real when it comes from somewhere else, or when you're insulated enough not to notice it leaving.

This doesn't just apply to politicians. Anyone who's worked in a large organization or inherited money knows the strange disorientation of suddenly spending your own resources. When your basic needs are always covered—whether by an institution, a family, or systems built to protect certain people—accountability can almost disappear. You stop counting. You stop noticing.

The sharper observation here is about what money actually teaches us. When you're forced to spend your own, you become acutely aware of value, trade-offs, and consequence. Maybe that's the real scandal Kennedy's pointing at—not that congressmen are dishonest, but that the job itself can create a kind of functional blindness to ordinary life. For any of us, that distance from real cost is worth noticing, because it changes how we think and what we care about.