The big money is not in the buying and the selling but in the waiting. — Charlie Munger

The big money is not in the buying and the selling but in the waiting.

Author: Charlie Munger

Insight: Most of us feel this constant pressure to act. We see an opportunity and feel like we need to jump on it immediately, or we're losing out. We refresh our portfolios, check our apps, make moves. But Munger is pointing at something counterintuitive: the real rewards often come to people who do almost nothing. They buy something solid, then they have the patience to actually let it sit while everyone else is frantically trading around them. This applies way beyond investing. It's true in your career—the person who stays at a company for years often builds more wealth and skill than the job-hopper constantly chasing the next title. It's true in relationships, where depth comes from showing up over time rather than intense early effort. It's true in your own growth, where you plant seeds (habits, skills, knowledge) and then have to resist the urge to dig them up constantly to check on them. The hardest part isn't figuring out what's worth buying or building. It's resisting the psychological itch to do something, anything, when nothing is what's actually needed. In a world that profits from keeping you anxious and active, patience has become genuinely radical.

Source: Poor Charlie's Almanack: The Wit and Wisdom of Charles T. Munger, 2005