I worship the quicksand he walks in. — Art Buchwald

I worship the quicksand he walks in.

Author: Art Buchwald

Insight: There's a strange honesty in admitting that you don't just love someone in spite of their mess, but sometimes because of it. We all know that person who seems to constantly step into trouble, yet we find ourselves rooting for them anyway. It's not about fixing them or pulling them out; it's about respecting their unique way of navigating a sticky world. This kind of devotion moves beyond pity and becomes a way of standing beside them while the ground shifts. In an era obsessed with smooth surfaces and perfect outcomes, this feeling feels radical. We usually reserve admiration for success stories, for people who glide over solid ground. But stability isn't the only thing worthy of attention. Sometimes the most human thing about someone is how they sink, and how they keep moving even when the ground gives way. Loving the quicksand means staying present when things get difficult, rather than waiting for the ground to solidify. It's a commitment to the reality of the struggle, not just the hope of rescue.

Why we worship the mess

I worship the quicksand he walks in.

There's a strange honesty in admitting that you don't just love someone in spite of their mess, but sometimes because of it. We all know that person who seems to constantly step into trouble, yet we find ourselves rooting for them anyway. It's not about fixing them or pulling them out; it's about respecting their unique way of navigating a sticky world. This kind of devotion moves beyond pity and becomes a way of standing beside them while the ground shifts.

In an era obsessed with smooth surfaces and perfect outcomes, this feeling feels radical. We usually reserve admiration for success stories, for people who glide over solid ground. But stability isn't the only thing worthy of attention. Sometimes the most human thing about someone is how they sink, and how they keep moving even when the ground gives way. Loving the quicksand means staying present when things get difficult, rather than waiting for the ground to solidify. It's a commitment to the reality of the struggle, not just the hope of rescue.

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Art Buchwald

Art Buchwald was an American humorist and political columnist, celebrated for his witty and often satirical writing in newspapers and magazines. He gained widespread acclaim for his columns, which provided sharp commentary on American politics and culture, and won the Pulitzer Prize for Commentary in 1979. Buchwald's unique voice and humor made him a prominent figure in American journalism throughout the latter half of the 20th century.

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